I hear mom's say to me quite often how they wish they could homeschool their children. I ask them why they don't and I get several different answers, but the two most popular answers I get are "I don't have the patience" and "I can't because I work for time". So I will explain my opinion on each answer and then I will tell you why we chose to homeschool.
#1 - "I don't have the patience"
Please don't think that I have patience with my children. I pray almost daily for patience. You teach your children everyday while you are home with them in the evening, after school. Do you have patience with them then? Some nights, maybe not. But no one, including me, claimed that homeschool moms have patience with their children.
There have been several days where I have locked myself in the bathroom for 10 minutes crying and praying for the Lord to help me and give me patience and I will be starting my 13'th year of homeschooling this fall! It's not easy, but I will tell you that it is worth it! So don't let patience but an excuse. You can do it and you will find patience......trust me.
#2 - "I can't because I work for time"
There are several moms that work and homeschool. I'm sure Youtube is loaded with videos on this. However, being a homeschool mom isn't just teaching, it's delegating and felicitating.
If you have older children (that can stay home alone), you can have lesson plans all ready for them. Explain how and what is expected of them; meaning they need to finish their work by a certain time. If they do, give them rewards; if not, punishments. As far as younger children go, you can do the same but have someone else stay with them during the day. Grandma's are great for this! Also, another homeschool mom may be willing to do this as well. (It is legal to have someone else homeschool your children. Just keep in mind that you are still responsible to follow all your state laws.)
Another thought, if you truly, seriously want to homeschool your child, find a way. Can you work from home? Night shift? You can always homeschool on your day's off. In our state of WV (under the Notice Option), there are no set days or hours on which you need to homeschool. You can homeschool 2 or 3 days a week all year around if you want.
Now, why we chose to homeschool. There are several reasons. The first reason was because I believe the Lord instructed me to do so. Other reasons include: I want to be with them, I want to teach them in the way they learn (no every student learns the same way), I want learning to be fun, I want them to learn things from a Christian point of view, I want to teach them Creation not evolution, I want to chose what they learn, I don't want negative influences and peer pressure to be an issue, I want to be able to chose the environment they learn in and who they socialize with, etc. As you can see there are several reasons why we chose to homeschool and many people have different reasons.
Choosing to control their environment, influences and social atmosphere is my job and responsibility. Call me a controlling, over protective or a "helicopter" mom. I don't care. I made some bad choices in my younger years (just like everyone else) and I if I shelter my children from unGodly influences, they will be free to make better choices than I did or just better choices in general. My job is to raise my children to be responsible, caring adults and support themselves and their families.
Something I hear and read often is that homeschoolers won't be able to function and socialize in the real world as adults. I find this both very amusing and utterly ridiculas. If sitting behind a desk with other peers within your own age all day in a classroom is the real world, then I must have missed that boat because the real world I live in I socialize with people of all ages daily, and it's not in a confined environment with limitations on what I can say and do. My children can hold entire conversations with other children, adults and groups. They know how to behave in public. They are respectful and kind. I've seen them help strangers load groceries in their cars when needed, help a stranger clean up a mess in a food isle at a store, etc. They function and socialize very well in public. Have you ever heard the line, "It takes a village to raise a child"? (I absolutely cannot stand that saying by the way.) My response is, "Yes, I've seen the village and I'll raise my own child, thanks anyway".
So for whatever reason why you are telling yourself that you can't homeschool........ think about it. Think about what you want for your children. If you decide to keep them in public school, private school, virtual school, etc. that is your choice. You are the parent. Just please don't let an excuse hold you back from something that will change you and your child's future forever. Homeschooling is great. If you are willing to take charge of your children's education, it's totally worth it!